Running for Bobby
Only 206 days remaining to help Running for Bobby reach her fundraising goal
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$3,500.00 goal
A MESSAGE FROM Running for Bobby
My dad was my North Star. He was Mr. Dependable—the problem solver, my first coach, my mentor, my confidant, my biggest fan, and my best friend. He is the reason I am who I am today. He taught me to work hard, set goals, be relentless, and always finish what you start. He also played a major role in shaping my sarcasm, and for that I will forever be grateful.

His stage 4 pancreatic cancer diagnosis shattered our family. Overnight, everything changed. The man who had always been our anchor—our fixer, our safety net—was suddenly fighting the most brutal, unforgiving battle of his life. Watching him endure it was devastating, but he fought every single day with everything he had.

Before he started chemo, we made a deal: we would do the hard things together. His was chemo, diet, and exercise so he can watch me run Chicago. Mine was running the Berlin and Chicago Marathons two weeks apart. In my mind: what’s 52.4 miles compared to what he was about to go through?

So here I am, finishing what we started. I’ll be running Berlin and, more importantly, the Chicago Marathon while raising money for pancreatic cancer research through Project Purple.

Those who know me know I’ve always said, “I am my father’s daughter.” That comes with a deep discomfort in asking for help—but if doing so can help prevent even one family from experiencing what ours did, it’s worth it. Any amount truly helps.

I hope I make you proud, Bobby.
  • In memory of Bob Abate made a $100.00 donation

    Dedge we are very proud of you doing this run in honor or your Dad your dad will be proud and will you every step of the way. Love, The Ledvina Family 

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  • Anonymous made a $50.00 donation
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  • Michelle Lisy made a $25.00 donation

    Your dad was such a great guy Dege - have such great memories of him. Thinking of you and your family

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  • Renee Romanelli Cieslukowski made a $100.00 donation
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  • Steve and Elaine Romanelli made a $50.00 donation

    Love the idea, Deje !! Keep his memory alive !!

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  • In memory of Bob, a great neighbor! made a $50.00 donation

    Diandra, your Dad's kindness, generosity and hospitality will always be in our memories.

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  • In memory of Bob Abate made a $100.00 donation

    He was so proud of you!! we spent many late hours together working and would always talk about family. He will be cheering you on!

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  • Timothy Cox made a $100.00 donation
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  • Rachel Leibovitz made a $100.00 donation

    I love you!!

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  • Katie Fischer made a $50.00 donation

    love you Bob

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  • joe emily aj anna swiatek made a $250.00 donation
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  • John J Romanelli made a $100.00 donation

    Maryann and I both believe wholeheartedly that you are your father’s daughter. Bobby was and will always be proud of all of your accomplishments. We are both very proud of you too. goid luck with the runs and any other challenges you will have in life.

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  • Thomas Lee made a $100.00 donation
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  • In memory of Bob Abate made a $100.00 donation

    Sending love to the family

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  • Catherine Kozak made a $25.00 donation
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  • Dan Lee made a $100.00 donation
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  • In memory of Bob Abate made a $25.00 donation

    i worked in IT at Lee Auto Parts and AutoWares with your dad for twenty years. I know he always thought of you and your family because your names were in his passwords. I will miss chatting with him over lunch at the warehouse.

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  • Joe Bryza made a $50.00 donation
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  • Kaitlin Guzzardi made a $150.00 donation
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  • In memory of Bob Abate made a $300.00 donation
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  • the Rau Family made a $100.00 donation
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  • Tempris Daniels made a $50.00 donation

    so proud of your Dege! can’t wait to support you :)

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  • Jennifer Garrett made a $100.00 donation

    love you Degey!

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  • Cathy Garrett made a $100.00 donation

    you’ve got this girl

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  • Taylor Sciortino made a $100.00 donation

    love you Dege!

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  • Patrick Howell made a $50.00 donation

    love you Patrick+carla

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  • In memory of My Cousin Bobby Abate made a $100.00 donation

    I hope this helps you continue working toward the goal you shared with your dad. I truly believe he would want you to accomplish the dream you set for yourself. I know these are difficult times, and sometimes the only way forward is one day at a time. Keeping a positive outlook can be hard, but it’s so important when chasing the goals and dreams we hold close. I’m sharing this with you because I genuinely understand what you’re feeling. I lost my dad when I was only 28 years old, and I know the emotions that come with that kind of loss. With sympathy & Love, Mark (ask your uncles Danny & Russell)

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  • Larry Arquilla made a $200.00 donation

    I don’t know what to say except your Dad was a great person and a very good friend & a friend among many. He will be greatly missed.

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  • In memory of Bob Abate made a $50.00 donation

    In memory of Bob - love Michael Mendicino

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  • Steven and Bridget made a $100.00 donation
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  • In memory of Bobby Abate made a $25.00 donation
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  • In memory of Bob Abate made a $100.00 donation

    So sorry for the loss of your father. He was a good friend who will truly be missed. He will be with you all the way. Love, Bill & Liz Lisy

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  • Gerace Olson made a $50.00 donation
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  • Dean and Susan Tragos made a $100.00 donation
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  • Nick and Stacy Romanelli made a $200.00 donation
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  • In memory of Robert Abate made a $250.00 donation

    Our hearts and prayers are with you, your Mom, and your family. May God’s Promise give you peace. James and Jean-Marie Daleo

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  • In memory of Bob Abate made a $50.00 donation
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  • Daniel Romanelli made a $100.00 donation

    Dege, what a Great way to honor your Father's memory and spirit. Bobby had a huge impact on anybody who met him. With his Happy go Lucky disposition, his kindness and welcoming spirit to Everyone he met. And oh yea, his Hilarious relentless, cutting sarcasm. He and your Uncle Joe would Always have everybody roaring with their humor. He will be missed severely by All. We will remember All the Fabulous times we spent with him. He was the Best Brother In-law I could have asked for. Bobby, I will see you on the other side...Have the Sambuca ready

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  • In memory of Robert Abate made a $100.00 donation

    Your father's professionalism, humor, passion and friendship will be missed. His spirit lives on as you race for a purpose. Our Condolences, Standard Motor Products Team

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  • In memory of Robert Abate made a $200.00 donation

    Dege-The Brouk’s are heartbroken to hear the news of your dad. His smile and energy on that corner will be missed. He was so proud of you(some would say you were the favorite) Hold on to all the memories and remember he is with you all the time. Now go run the best you can for your dad!!!

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  • Claudia Alano made a $100.00 donation

    Great way to honor your Dad. You got this!!! Thinking of your mom and sister.

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  • In memory of Bob Abate made a $50.00 donation

    ♥️

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  • Cassie Clary made a $100.00 donation

    So proud of you dege! your dad has the best view and will be cheering you on the whole way. ILY!!!

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  • Bob Abate made a $100.00 donation

    In honor of Bob . Run Dege Run love Mary and Dave Pratt

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  • Jack Lothrop made a $250.00 donation

    I will always remember the great times following Dege and Kara around to all the basketball games . I met you then and considered you a great guy from the start. My condolences to the family on behalf of the Lothrop family. RIP Bob

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  • Maddy Clary made a $50.00 donation

    ❤️❤️❤️

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  • In memory of Bobby Abate made a $150.00 donation

    Dege- we are so proud to support you and Project Purple in your Dad’s honor. Heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Love, Jeanmarie, Allie & Frannie

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  • Anthony Lisandrello made a $50.00 donation

    Your dad will be right next to you every step you take!

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  • Mike Bronke made a $50.00 donation

    Bob was a great man and will always be watching over you! Wishing you the best of luck Diandra!!

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  • In memory of Bobby Abate made a $100.00 donation

    There is no question in my mind that you will see this promise through for your Dad and for anyone it could benefit. He was a King, that’s how I saw him. A man of men surrounded by women who loved and adored him. The Best! All our love, Rick & Carey

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  • Mikayla Clary made a $100.00 donation

    You’re going to do amazing! Your dad will be there, cheering you on with every step! ILYSM

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  • Sophie Clary made a $50.00 donation

    Go Dege!!! ❤️

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  • In memory of Bob Abate made a $50.00 donation

    Dege, so very sorry for your loss. What a tribute to your father! He would be so very proud of you. His legacy lives on in you and the rest of the family. I, too, was my father’s daughter. To this day, many years after we lost him, I still repeat his sayings; and his memory is very much alive and a guiding principle in my life. May your memories sustain you and eventually bring you peace. Sending big cyber hugs and much love to you and the rest of the family from AZ. I am so very sorry to miss the services. Debbie Oldenburg Schroeder, a friend of your Mom and her family from 32nd Ave.

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  • Francesca Guzzardi made a $50.00 donation

    Nick and Frankie guzzardi

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  • In memory of Bob Abate made a $100.00 donation

    Dear Diandra- when I read your dedication to your dad, I welled up. And though you and I have never met, I knew your mom and grandparents well- another lifetime ago - when we were young and bright-eyed! We shared many meals, many cocktails, many laughs and many friends. I only met your dad a few times- way back in the day -but I know he was the love of your mom’s life. Your note brought him to life for me and wow what a daughter they created in you! I wish you God-speed in achieving your end of the bargain. Finish strong! No doubt you will be duly inspired to do it!  Bella

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  • Rachel Oostman made a $224.00 donation

    Sending all my love to you and your family during this difficult time. I’m deeply sorry for your loss. You now have a beautiful angel running alongside you, always.

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  • In honor of Bob Abate made a $100.00 donation

    Your Dad will be missed by everyone he met in life. Very, very sorry for your loss.

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  • Amundsen Davis made a $100.00 donation

    Our hearts are with you during this difficult time. Sending positive thoughts to you and your family. ~Your Friends at Amundsen Davis

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  • Timothy Furman made a $151.00 donation

    We are so sorry for your loss. We love you, Dege!

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  • Pete and Beth made a $100.00 donation

    Love you Dege

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  • Megan Schroeder made a $100.00 donation

    Good luck Dege! Thinking of you!

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  • Lindsey Cannata made a $100.00 donation

    Your dad raised one of the best people I know. You got this! Love you.

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  • Sandra Mendicino-Green made a $100.00 donation

    I’m so door for your loss. I hope this will help to crush this terrible disease.

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  • In honor of Bob Abate made a $50.00 donation

    your dad was always so proud of you. I’ll miss seeing him walking the dogs Terri Radek

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  • Kirsten Leibovitz made a $100.00 donation
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  • AGT Global Logistics made a $500.00 donation

    He will be there right along side you. You got this!!! AGT Global Logistics

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  • Bridgette Bridgette made a $100.00 donation

    Our hearts go out to all of you. Bridgette, Bri & Kai, Emily & Anthony, and Nicole & Aidan. "The Vintika's"

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  • Melissa Lukasick made a $100.00 donation

    You got this! An amazing tribute to your dad. sorry for your loss.

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  • Alison Tubay made a $200.00 donation
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  • Sara Taylor made a $50.00 donation

    Go Diandra!

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  • Terri Grieshaber made a $100.00 donation

    He was so proud of the first one you ran. You can do it again! I am going to miss my work bestie. Godspeed Bobby!!

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  • In memory of Bob Abate made a $500.00 donation

    Your father was a beloved member of Lee Auto and Auto-Wares for years. He was our 'Mr. Chicago'. His passing is a shock to many people in our company and we will miss him dearly. We wish you luck and strength in your marathons. Condolences to you and your family from Auto-Wares.

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  • Colleen Klein made a $100.00 donation

    In honor of an amazing man for a great cause. He’ll be with you every step of those 52.4 miles. Good luck, Diandra!

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  • Diandra Abate made a $100.00 donation
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